Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues
Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues mimics the developmental processes of childhood. The emotional pain that accumulated during the first stage of development was carried forward as a foundation for the second stage. Similarly, healing that accumulates as you work through the first stage forms a foundation for healing the second stage, and so forth. STOP living life in reaction.
Just as it is with this course, several of the courses in the Serenity Cafe Academy are designed for use with or without a journal. Taking time to go through this course, and answering all of the suggested journal questions will be a great primer as you go into specific areas for recovery.
Don Carter MSW, LCSW
Therapist, Author, & Recovery Coach
The middle of seven children, Don grew up on a farm with hard-working parents who had their own issues from childhood. The farm work led to a scholarship to play football at the University of Missouri at Columbia in 1977-79. He followed that with a brief stint with the New Orleans Saints in 1980. That experience was cut short by a developing problem with alcohol and drugs.
A series of childhood tragedies, depression, anxiety, and bouts with addictions led him to an inpatient treatment program in 1986. Don found treatment and recovery such a profoundly gratifying experience that he returned to school, finished two degrees, became a licensed therapist, and for the past 35 years has dedicated himself to helping others find their way out too.
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Thawing the Iceberg
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Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues takes us back to the child development stages where the original wounding occurred. This video describes the healing and recovery from those wounds.
What Else is Inside This Book and Online Course?
The first five chapters in the first five books in the Thawing the Iceberg Series are identical. These chapters outline my Iceberg Model. In this way, each book stands alone and does not require the purchase of other books in the series.
Trust vs Mistrust
Identity vs. Confusion
Autonomy vs Shame
Intimacy vs Isolation
Initiative vs. Guilt
The same modules in each stage specific to developmental tasks
Initiative vs. Guilt
Why Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues?
One of the most frequently asked questions in counseling offices today is: "But why dig all that up again?" Answer? "Because it keeps getting triggered!" Below are more good reasons to do this for yourself.
SO YOU CAN...
STOP Letting Your Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors Take Charge of You. START Taking Charge of Your Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors.
STOP Re-Experiencing Painful Emotional Themes and Dysfunctional Relationship Patterns. START Identifying and Healing Your Emotional Triggers.
STOP Doing Your Pain in Advance. (9 times out of 10 it's Unnecessary Pain) START Letting Go of Worries, Anxieties, and Fears (WAFs).
STOP Sabotaging Yourself with Short-Term Fixes, such as False Refuges like Alcohol, Drugs, Chocolate Cake, etc. START Achieving Your Goals and Dreams.
STOP Feeling like an Imposter. Take Off the Mask of an Invented Self. START being Authentic and Share Who You REALLY are with Others ~ Your True Self.
STOP the Cycles of Depression, Anxiety, Addiction, and Compulsion. START Healing the Emotional Wounds of Abandonment and Generating Cycles of Success!
STOP the Inner Criticism and Infection of Shame. START Practicing Self-Compassion and Self-Leadership.
STOP Protecting Yourself with a Scab of Contempt for Self and/or Others. START Practicing Assertiveness and Healthy Boundaries.
STOP People-Pleasing and Approval Seeking. START to Uncover, Discover, Recover, and Share Who You Really Are ~ Your True Self.
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The three primary Ego-States of TA are the Parent Ego-State, The Adult Ego-State, and the Child Ego-State. Ego-state therapy and Gestalt therapy paved the way for many other "Parts-Oriented" therapies including Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy and Parts Integration Therapies. Interestingly, secular and spiritual models of personality agree on the basic structure:
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Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues
Serenity Cafe Academy Online Course with EBook Included
Total Value: $47.00
Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues mimics the developmental processes of childhood. The emotional pain that accumulated during the first stage of development was carried forward as a foundation for the second stage. The first and second stages lay a foundation for the third stage, etc. Similarly, healing accumulates laying a foundation for healing the second stage, and so forth. The program relies heavily on over 60 experiential audio programs to facilitate the emotional component of that healing process.
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The emotional wounding process experienced by those who were raised in a less-than-nurturing family
How those emotional wounds show up in various personal and interpersonal problems in adulthood
An innovative, easy-to-understand, integrated model of addiction, codependency, enabling relationships, Adult/Child Syndrome
How fear of abandonment, toxic shame, and contempt for self or others are created by trauma and attachment wounds
How to heal these wounds and the parts of self that carry them.
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