Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues

Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues mimics the developmental processes of childhood. The emotional pain that accumulated during the first stage of development was carried forward as a foundation for the second stage. The combined pain from the first and second stages forms a foundation for the experience of the third stage, etc. 


Similarly, healing that accumulates as you work through the first stage forms a foundation for healing the second stage, and so forth. STOP living life in reaction.


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There is a strong focus on experiencing, integrating, and releasing the emotions of the past. For this reason, the program relies heavily on its more than 60 experiential audio programs to facilitate the emotional component of that healing process. Healing the first six of eight life stages makes it possible for the seventh and eighth stages to be the best of them all!

Just as it is with this course, several of the courses in the Serenity Cafe Academy are designed for use with or without a journal. Taking time to go through this course, and answering all of the suggested journal questions will be a great primer as you go into specific areas for recovery.

Don Carter MSW, LCSW

Therapist, Author, & Recovery Coach

The middle of seven children, Don grew up on a farm with hard-working parents who had their own issues from childhood. The farm work led to a scholarship to play football at the University of Missouri at Columbia in 1977-79. He followed that with a brief stint with the New Orleans Saints in 1980. That experience was cut short by a developing problem with alcohol and drugs. 


A series of childhood tragedies, depression, anxiety, and bouts with addictions led him to an inpatient treatment program in 1986. Don found treatment and recovery such a profoundly gratifying experience that he returned to school, finished two degrees, became a licensed therapist, and for the past 35 years has dedicated himself to helping others find their way out too.

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Why Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues?

One of the most frequently asked questions in counseling offices today is: "But why dig all that up again?"  Answer? "Because it keeps getting triggered!" Below are more good reasons to do this for yourself. 

SO YOU CAN...

STOP Letting Your Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors Take Charge of You. START Taking Charge of Your Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors. 

STOP Re-Experiencing Painful Emotional Themes and Dysfunctional Relationship Patterns. START Identifying and Healing Your Emotional Triggers.

STOP Doing Your Pain in Advance. (9 times out of 10 it's Unnecessary Pain) START Letting Go of Worries, Anxieties, and Fears (WAFs).

STOP Sabotaging Yourself with Short-Term Fixes, such as False Refuges like Alcohol, Drugs, Chocolate Cake, etc. START Achieving Your Goals and Dreams.

STOP Feeling like an Imposter. Take Off the Mask of an Invented Self. START being Authentic and Share Who You REALLY are with Others ~ Your True Self.

STOP the Cycles of Depression, Anxiety, Addiction, and Compulsion. START Healing the Emotional Wounds of Abandonment and Generating Cycles of Success!

STOP the Inner Criticism and Infection of Shame. START Practicing Self-Compassion and Self-Leadership.

STOP Protecting Yourself with a Scab of Contempt for Self and/or Others. START Practicing Assertiveness and Healthy Boundaries.

STOP People-Pleasing and Approval Seeking. START to Uncover, Discover, Recover, and Share Who You Really Are ~ Your True Self.



Thawing the Iceberg Series

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Thaw– Freedom from Frozen Feelings, is about the emotional wounds of abandonment, shame, and contempt created by growing up in a less-than-nurturing family.

Thawing Adult-Child Syndrome is designed for those who want to heal Issues such as abandonment, shame, addiction, C-PTSD, and codependency. The focus is on current Relationships

Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues mimics the developmental processes of childhood by following that same developmental pathway to heal. Here the focus is on healing childhood wounds.

Thawing Toxic Relationships is a book about healing and co-creating healthy, functional relationships for those who grew up in a dysfunctional family such as one that included alcoholism, addiction, and/or codependency.

Based on Thawing Addiction, Serenity Cafe Recovery Center is different than the other courses here at Serenity Cafe. It is built to provide an online structure, services, and Community similar to an intensive outpatient program.

Thawing the Spirit: STOP treating the symptoms of emotional and psychological distress! Use them to trace, unpack, and heal the root cause with Don's "Reverse Engineering Symptoms" and "R.A.D.I.C.A.L. Reintegration Protocol".

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Thawing the Iceberg 
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Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues takes us back to the child development stages where the original wounding occurred. This video describes the healing and recovery from those wounds.

What Else is Inside This Book and Online Course?

The first five chapters in the first five books in the Thawing the Iceberg Series are identical. These chapters outline my Iceberg Model. In this way, each book stands alone and does not require the purchase of other books in the series.


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Chapter One
"What the hell is wrong with you?" Motivation, Dependency Needs, the Iceberg Model

Chapter Five
Distractions & Dependencies Addictions, Obsessions, Compulsions,
Chapter Two
Anatomy of Emotional Wound Abandonment, Shame, & Contempt - The False Self

Chapter Six
The Twilight Zone: Reaching Out, Transition-Stabilization, Recovery
Chapter Three
The Art of Survival External Focus, Impression Mgt - The Invented Self

Workbook Intro
Next half of the book is a workbook which contains 60+ “Audio Alerts” and Journaling
Chapter Four
Who am I Really? Imperfect World & Spirituality - The True Self

Preparation
Course overview, Co-dependent Internalizer, Counter-dependent Externalizer
Stage One

Trust vs Mistrust 

  • Discover 
  • Uncover 
  • Recover 
  • Release
Stage Five

Identity vs. Confusion

  • Discover 
  • Uncover 
  • Recover 
  • Release
Stage Two

Autonomy vs Shame

  • Discover 
  • Uncover 
  • Recover 
  • Release
Stage Six

Intimacy vs Isolation

  • Discover 
  • Uncover 
  • Recover 
  • Release
Stage Three

Initiative vs. Guilt 

  • Discover 
  • Uncover 
  • Recover 
  • Release

The same modules in each stage specific to developmental tasks

  • Self-Assessment
  • Outcomes Diagram
  • Relationships TL
  • ID the Inner Critic
  • Consolidate Data
  • Reclaim this Part
  • Learn about the Part
  • Grieve the Losses
  • Release the Pain
  • Update the Imprints
Stage Four

Initiative vs. Guilt

  • Discover 
  • Uncover 
  • Recover 
  • Release
Journal Exercises

There are twice as many journal assignments as the 60+ Audio Alerts. Keeping a Journal is necessary.

Counseling & Coaching Services

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Live Webinars, Meeting Halls, and Group Rooms

These resources are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for any member of Serenity Cafe. When Don is facilitating a group session the rooms will be locked for 60 to 90 minutes, maybe longer for special events.

Emotional Freedom (EFT) & Bilateral Stimulation (BLS) Studios

Try the Sample of Visual and Auditory Bilateral Stimulation Video Below. Use the gear in the lower right corner to change the speed and the expanding arrows to go full-screen.

[Don provides free webinars to show members how and why to combine BLS and EFT]

These resources are also available 24 hours, 7 Days a week for any member of Serenity Cafe.We have one Public EFT-BLS Studio and EIGHT Private EFT-BLS Studios (two of each). The difference is that the community room allows for groups up to 7 members. the private rooms allow for only 1 member at a time so there are no interruptions. Click here to start you free membership.

Private Group Sessions Facilitated by Don Carter MSW, LCSW

These resources are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for any member of Serenity Cafe. When Don is facilitating a group session the rooms will be locked for 60 to 90 minutes, maybe longer for special events.

You Also Get Bonus Courses, Webinars, and Replays...

Working with Ego-States and Parts-of-Self

Course from Serenity Café Academy

Total Value: $37.00

The three primary Ego-States of TA are the Parent Ego-State, The Adult Ego-State, and the Child Ego-State. Ego-state therapy and Gestalt therapy paved the way for many other "Parts-Oriented" therapies including Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy and Parts Integration Therapies.  Interestingly, secular and spiritual models of personality agree on the basic structure:

  • Freud: Id, Ego, Superego (Psychoanalytic)
  • Berne: Child, Adult, Parent (Transactional Analysis)
  • Spiritual (Generic): Body, Mind, Spirit (IFS, NLP, etc)
  • Spiritual (Biblical): Flesh, Mind, Spirit (God's Word)

Loosen Limiting Beliefs and Mental Filters

Course from Serenity Café Academy

Total Value: $37.00

In this course, we select a target core belief for change. This may be a belief held by a wounded inner child part of the self, an outer child protector or manager of that wounded inner child, or any other thought-feeling-behavior pattern that causes problems in your life. A core belief consists of a system of beliefs, memories, and mental filters through which we see others, ourselves, and life in general. Most of these beliefs must be "loosened" before we can let them go. This course helps us do that.

Live Webinars, Events, and Webinar Replays

For Clients and Members Only

Total Value: $120 (Each)

Live Webinars, Webinar Replays, Events, and coaching calls. This feature is for our Coaching clients and Serenity Cafe members. You become a Serenity Cafe Member when you register for free portal access, enroll in a course or program at Serenity Cafe Academy, or become a client of Don or Angie. Webinars and other events are free to all members and clients. 

Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues

Serenity Cafe Academy Online Course with EBook Included

Total Value: $47.00

Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues mimics the developmental processes of childhood. The emotional pain that accumulated during the first stage of development was carried forward as a foundation for the second stage. The first and second stages lay a foundation for the third stage, etc. Similarly, healing accumulates laying a foundation for healing the second stage, and so forth.  The program relies heavily on over 60 experiential audio programs to facilitate the emotional component of that healing process.


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Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues E-book                          $7.99 Value

Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issues Course                        $37.00 Value

Optional Counseling or Coaching Sessions with Don         $120/hr. Value

All Future Lesson Updates, Therapy Cards, and Downloads    Unlimited Value

All Serenity Café Live Webinars, Events, and Webinar Replays  $1440/Yr Value

Total Monetary Value: $1,500+

But The REAL Value is Determined by You and Your Level of Commitment. It will be Worthless if You Don't Do the Work, Priceless if You Do!

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There is only one of me and my availability ebbs and flows. There may be a lag in taking on new clients from time to time. If you see the options to enroll in counseling or coaching below, it means I am currently taking new clients. The option to sign up for the courses will always be available.

Notice and Recommendations

Although they can enhance professional help, these courses are not meant to replace professional evaluation and therapy. If you don't get that with me as your counselor or don't already have a counselor, please reach out to someone for evaluation and recommendations.

CRISIS INFORMATION: If you are feeling like hurting yourself, having an emotional crisis, or even thinking of suicide STOP and go to a local emergency room or call a local law enforcement agency. Click Below for resources to find help in the USA: 

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Final Notes

If you already have experience or training in counseling and you feel competent to take the course without counseling or coaching, feel free to do that. You can ask questions at the live webinars and events. You can also message me and text me with questions from the portal.

Doing these activities alone has its place and benefits. However, doing them with an accountability partner or group is even better! Invite a close, safe, like-minded friend or friends to join with you. Let me know when someone you invite takes you up on it and I will give them a 50% off coupon to join you.

If your partner is your therapist or coach, I will enroll them for free under your name. Once on board in my client portal, message me. I will get them enrolled under your name.

Refund Policy: If you are not completely satisfied with these resources or a specific coaching or counseling session, I will refund 100% of your money for the course or that specific session. No questions asked.

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